Rivalry is truly just another form of love. A complicated and perhaps toxic love, but a form of love nonetheless.
The rivalry between these two schools is palpable. Opposing students bicker at the tailgates, middle-aged alumni argue over which football players are most relevant and fraternity banners such as “Trojans break under pressure” are the stars of the show. Much less impressive USC ones, like “Don’t Bruin your day,” limply flutter in the air as well. We might not have won the game, but our creativity and wittiness clearly reigned supreme.
As I soak in fleeting moments from my final rivalry game as a senior, I find myself reflecting on the fiery exchanges between USC and UCLA students on the bleachers. I couldn’t help but wonder why this rivalry is taken so passionately and overwhelmingly seriously.
As an immigrant new to the American football infatuation and the first in my family to attend a four-year university in the U.S., it all seemed excessive and, dare I say, ridiculous. But as I reflected more, I realized the depth behind it all. For generations, this iconic rivalry has prevailed. It is tradition, ingrained in the fabrics of both schools, echoing through history and running through the veins of Bruins and Trojans alike. Yet, why does this rivalry exist in the first place, among thousands of others in college football?
Perhaps it reflects another capitalist phenomenon, where competition is glorified, individualism is celebrated and profits flow abundantly. The market built around this rivalry certainly suggests so.
But maybe it’s about something far deeper and humanizing than mere economics. Could this fierce rivalry be a facade for love? Has this campus-igniting rivalry, amid the screams of fans rising in anticipation of a touchdown, been quietly telling a story of connection and respect all along?
Let’s face it, we’ve all applied or have considered applying to USC, and for most of us, it was probably our second choice. Similarly, many USC students have also applied to UCLA.
There is this mutual acknowledgment of each other’s importance that serves as the foundation for this rivalry. Of course, the close proximity of USC and UCLA in Los Angeles naturally fosters a sense of competition, as both schools are recognized for their athletic, academic and cultural triumphs. Yet, there’s a shared recognition of excellence, one that transcends the animosity on the surface — tying them together in a unique and enduring relationship. After all, a rivalry wouldn’t exist without a worthy adversary to push against, and in that lies a form of respect — perhaps even love. Yes, love.
The passion, the pride and the intensity aren’t just expressions of opposition but reflections of how much these schools mean to one another. The rivalry has become a tradition that unites, even as it divides. Beneath the chants, bickering and fiery competitions, there may very well be a form of affection — a testament to the greatness admired by both schools.
Upon closer consideration, this rivalry transcends the world of college athletics. On a broader level, rivalries like this tap into universal human tendencies to create tight-knit groups, fostering a sense of belonging and identity.
This rivalry ultimately mirrors the dynamics of human relationships: friendships, romantic bonds, siblings and, of course, Bruins. The inevitable rifts that arise between roommates who start fighting like sisters, the heated arguments couples face at least once a month or the stubborn stance of giving your sibling the silent treatment all showcase the fond love and care for such passion to arise.
Just as UCLA and USC push and pull against one another in tense competition, relationships often grow through moments of conflict and reconciliation. Strong bonds are rarely forged in harmony alone. Disagreements, arguments and challenges are important assets for a deep, long-lasting relationship, where growth and understanding prevail. Of course, moderation is key — which is why there is only one Bruin-Trojan football game in the year.
Like a relationship tested by differences, this rivalry endures because it matters. The two schools, much like two people who care deeply for one another, define themselves not just in contrast but in relation to each other. Just as friendships face arguments and couples navigate disagreements, this rivalry is a reminder that even the fiercest battles can be rooted in respect, fondness and love.
Anyway, all that to say Go Bruins!
…Fine, Fight on as well.
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Illustration by Yunseo Kwon/BruinLife
